An erotic massage – that sounds like would – be foreplay and standard cuddling. It is the best way to relax and open up sexually. With our six tips, the erotic massage becomes a game with the senses for him.
Stroking, kneading and caressing a little – is certainly nice, but that’s not all. Because with a really good erotic massage you have to know exactly how to tackle where.
So bring the massage oil and up on the bed, mat or floor! With these tips, the erotic massage becomes particularly sensual.
Erotic massage # tip 1: relax & clear your head
First of all: the ambience counts as always. Because in order to start the pampering program, you should ensure a clear break in everyday life together. So darken the room and ensure a pleasantly warm room temperature so that your partner feels absolutely comfortable naked. Relaxing music and nice dim lighting are also not to be sniffed at.
Whether you are completely naked or not is up to you. Of course, it feels nicer for your partner when he feels your bare skin during the erotic massage.
In order to magic away all stressful thoughts of the day and to-dos, you can, for example, start your erotic massage quite harmlessly with a relaxing head massage. Gently rub your palms over his face and massage the temples with your fingertips, letting them slide outwards several times with a little pressure.
The sole purpose of this first massage unit is to switch off and relax. If he is particularly tense, you can massage his temples with fragrant essences. That also relaxes. (You should only refrain from using essential oils, after all, your fingers will later slide on parts of the body where oils of this type are more likely to cause pain.)
Erotic massage # tip 2: Make way for all the senses
Everyone always smiles at feet, but they can be damn erotic. And the sole of the foot has wonderful points that, if you know how to squeeze them, can ensure absolute well-being. A pampering foot massage (yes, you read that right) can ensure that your partner can now completely surrender to their senses. The best thing to do is to close your eyes and just concentrate on your fingers and movements.
Important from now on and for all other parts of the body that you want to stimulate with your erotic massage: Take massage oil, plenty of it, it gives all movements more flow and is much nicer for your partner.
There are lots of magic moves involved in a foot massage: gently pull on each of your toes, slide your fingers through the spaces between your toes and press in circles with your thumb below the toes on the ball of the foot. Then massage the cavity of the foot vigorously. Find out what he likes best.
If you want to make him want more, you can put his toes in your mouth and suck them off. Be sensual in all movements with your fingers and draw him under the spell of his sensations. Anyone who thinks that foot massage is unotic, has never had one that was done with verve.
Important: To ensure that the massage oil is not too cold on your skin, always put a few drops in your hands and rub in until it is warmed up between your hands.
Erotic massage # tip 3: Gently approach and let yourself fidget
From now on you become clearer, but let him fidget even more. It would be a little too fast to devote himself directly to the penis and testicles, after all, he should slowly but surely drift into this area where he just wants to feel and perceive every touch more intensely.
That’s why you get closer to his particularly erogenous zones, but keep them out even further. In other words, if you slide your hands gently towards the inside of his thighs, he may already suspect what is coming – but you are not (yet) doing it.
So massage his thigh muscles, alternating between gentle caresses and firm kneading grips along the muscle. Take your time, after all, it should fidget a little (under your hands). The more accidentally you slide your hands towards the penis shaft and testicles, the more nervous he will get.
Erotic massage # tip 4: All-round pleasure all around your butt
How disappointed he will be when he has to turn around and lie on his stomach after the erotic massage of his thighs. But now you will first dedicate yourself to its crisp back. So massage his buttocks with your hands and gently slide up and down along the pores. Alternately with the strokes, you also like to grip tightly and knead your muscles. Such a man’s butt can take something.How disappointed he will be if he goes after the erotic massage turn over his thighs and lie on his stomach. But now you will first dedicate yourself to its crisp back.
So massage his buttocks with your hands and gently slide up and down along the pores. Alternately with the strokes, you also like to grip tightly and knead your muscles. Such a man’s butt can take something.
Here, too, your hands can go astray again, i.e. wander towards the anus and perineum. Get enough lube and see how far you can go without it being too much. The motto is still: stimulate very slowly, but always a little more, so that your arousal increases very slowly. You have to decide how far you go, whether you also stimulate his testicles. Here, too, your hands can go astray again, i.e. wander towards the anus and perineum. Get enough lube and see how far you can go without it being too much. The motto is still: very slowly, but always a little more stimulate so that his excitement increases very slowly. You have to decide how far you go, whether you also stimulate his testicles.
While you are massaging and caressing him, you can lie down on him so that he can feel your body and your skin on his. An erotic massage doesn’t mean that you can’t cover him with kisses and whisper things in his ear.
Erotic massage # tip 5: In medias res – penis & testicles
Of course, it may well be that both of you can no longer stand it and have to stop the erotic massage now. But if you still have stamina, then you now devote yourself to his most sensitive part of the body. Yes, he may finally turn around (or you’re lying on his back and reach for the front between his legs). What makes a good hand job? Not the technology, but the enthusiasm with which you get to work. And of course plenty of lubricant. Start by taking its best piece in your hands and gently sliding it up and down (initially) with a firm grip – start here again softly on the penis shaft and slowly work your way up to the sensitive glans and the extremely sensitive frenulum.
You slowly increase the pace, depending on how it is good for the victim of your erotic massage.
At the same time, you can very carefully take his testicles in the other hand and gently enclose them. These two parallel finger games will not fail to have an effect.
Erotic massage: # Tip 6: Sextoys and other aids
Appropriate sextoys are ideal for massage, such as a massage toy, dildo, butt plug anal vibrators for the prostate and G-spot or a lay-on vibrator or whatever comes into your hands to make the touch even more beautiful. And of course don’t forget the massage oil or lubricant, as I said, nothing works without it.
Extra tip : Why not use your breasts as soft ‘massage balls’: To do this, pinch your best piece between the breasts and let it slide slowly through the cleavage. You don’t have to like it, but it can be extremely hot.
Be imaginative about everything you integrate into your erotic massage, be it sex toys or food, playing with warmth and cold or weightlessness in the water. The erotic massage can take place anywhere and be versatile and exciting. So: be creative!
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